Originally Posted by
Cyranoak 
They made things worse for a long, long time because when I stopped enabling they just picked up the slack.
Yeah, got that going on here too!! For years, AH's family told me to "put my foot down" and "stop enabling"... blah-blah-blah. They always seemed to have all the answers on what I needed to do!! Now that I have stopped enabling, have stood up for ME... guess who's jumped in to bail AH out?!?!?!