What a wonderful post!
Having strength and courage and moving forward is all wonderful, but admittedly exhausting to the body and spirit. You are minding that so well and keeping your lifelines open with therapy and meetings....Bravo!!
The response of your children in working through the changes and seeing how they are taking part is a real positive message to put out here. When we make healthy changes and accept them as positive, children feel that and see that and they too accept healthy change more easily. Keeping in mind the healthy changes can often be the toughest to make, of course.
I'm so proud of you!
Alice