Prayforstrength - Sounds like you handled the situation with your son really well. What a teaching moment it turned out to be. I bet he is really proud of you! My kids are 10/11 so I'm not sure how much they are aware of. I guess we'll see as time goes on. I haven't figured out how I feel about my husband and that whole situation. I would imagine my feelings there will change as I figure out being sober. Thanks again for the kind and informative words.