Chino you are right. Regardless of what is going on I need to stop trying to interfere and control the situation and let go. I do respect him so if he needs space for whatever reason that I have no choice but to back off. I can't read his mind so I have no idea what exactly is going on, but Ive realized by me leading with my "woman emotions" (lol) I am only creating more pressure and stress on him. So if he wants to be with me when he is ready he will come to me. Its hard to deal with, but its my only choice.