I have been for a long time. I've proactively educated myself on addiction and feel like I'm the only one in my family who knows anything about it. I'm on this forum literally every day, and I have detached completely from the addict. I don't really struggle with "how can I get my brother well" or anything. I'm past all that. He's put us through enough that I almost dont even see him as my brother or hope he decides to chose us over opiates cause I know thats completely futile. Im just trying to salvage my relationship with my mother and i dont know if THAT's even doable