Is it awful that a part of me is REALLY IRRITATED with the fact that I even have to consider reminding him? He's an adult like me. He keeps track of his work and soccer schedule and yet can't/chooses not to (the latter I think) keep track of his kids' events. I realize I'm doing this (reminding him) for the girls sake and really, that's the only reason I am doing it. A part of me feels like it enables him to continue to be an irresponsible dad bc he really isn't expected to remember/keep track of things. Oh well, if it's this or see the girls upset bc he forgets, I'll do this.