Welcome,
Unfortunately, she is the only one who can save her. She must want recovery more than anything else in the world, her saying she will do it for you will not work.
My mother is the main alcoholic in my life, she has been tanked for 65 years, she has never wanted recovery and never will, she will die an alcoholic.
I agree with Mike and Freedom, start those meetings. Read around this forum, and the
Family and Friends Of Substance abusers, pay special attention to the stickies, lots of
information at your finger tips.
And, keep posting!