Jamieeg welcome,
Glad you found us !
At least you now have a place to vent, share and get some advice.
Not all the advice will work for your situation so take what works and leave the rest.
One of the first things you learn is you can only control you. And it seem you are doing it. If that means you get the blame from the parents or not does not matter, the will get the message in time.
We are all here for you, keep posting, keep sharing, keep hope.