Originally Posted by anvilhead

what is the next WISE step for you take, given the FACTS of the matter??? you know what you know, you know about him, you have years and years of experience in that arena. your own words state he has been a constant letdown. you know the truth. he is not going to change. that puts the ball in your court. how much more of your life are you going to put on hold waiting for him to be something he never can or will be???? we have to be the change we want to see in our lives. that is our obligation and responsibility as adults. we can only blame others for so long, before it begins to sound like an excuse to do nothing..........