I find the F/F side to be more often more loving patient and compassionate than the recovery side. And less snide. These folks want us to heal and share in that healing where as addicts are selfish while using than often become selfish in their recovery. I didn't say "ALL" so don't bother defending yourself if you feel convicted in your generosity
I love both sides and get triggered by responses all over the board. Those are the posts that teach me a lot about myself and my level of generosity and compassion. We are all learning and healing. Thank you for starting this thread