Well this is the poster's decision to make and not ours. He asked that she accompany him to ONE meeting, not all of them. Open AA meetings are for those who wish to learn about addiction, and I think that is a healthy thing if considering romance with an ex drinker. If the poster is happy to go, then who are we to tell her it is wrong? From the point of view of an RA, I would rather someone who understood this illness than condemned me for it with no prior knowledge; research and understanding of any kind is therefore a good thing for a prospective partner. I just can't see what the big deal with this is..........