I agree! I had to go back and re-read my first post to this thread to see if I agreed then too or if I posted something quite different, lol. I did. Whew.
I also want to be clear to all my cyber 'friends' on this board that I don't turn the corner when I see someone coming out of an AA room. I respect so many of you here and a few IRL people I know and am glad to have 'met' you and the IRL peeps too. I don't think addiction in and of itself makes anyone a bad person. I just no longer plan to take them home and marry them
Yes of course I took them home because 'having a home' was never on my list - so they didn't - not even a hovel, lmao.