Mine told me he would provoke me with accusations to decide whether it was a vodka or jameson's day. Niiiice. Way to go there, Quacker.
He has also been jealous of Words with Friends, my ex who works in a huge system (I hardly ever see him and don't tell stxabf if I do see him); paranoid about my band practices, if I take a shower other than the morning even if I'm dirty from yardwork, what I post on FB and what I don't post on FB, etc... the list could go on and on.
Now that he's gone, the paranoia has taken full force. He recently told me he doesn't trust me because I keep changing my mind. He seems to believe all decisions are static and shouldn't be effected because of his nasty attitude towards me. He told me he refuses to come here alone to get his stuff because, "...I'll come over and you'll start a fight. The next thing I know, you'll call the cops and I'll be led out in handcuffs." Wha? That is NOT me. But, that paranoia takes hold and there's no way out.