Thanks for posting this, I feel for you...I am on day 15 of no contact with my ex gf and she still hasn't called/txt'd or anything. Every sec I feel like breaking down and trying to get back to her but I know it would turn into me asking for forgiveness as well.
Whats adding to my normal over-obsessing is this week I was on vacation...and it was my birthday. It was supposed to be a good week, but it certainly didn't turn out that way.
Like someone posted earlier...at least there is no new pain but the old pain is still fresh.