Can I join here, I'm an alcoholic
I am an alcoholic, I quit drinking on 08/02/2011. I was married for 27 1/2 years to an alcoholic, who also had a personality disorder. I have been divorced now for 9 months.
I left my AH 12/31/2008, then I lived with friends, who would not take anything from me, while living with them. I bought my own house the end of April this year, My ex was extremely abusive. It wasn't until I bought my house, that I would begin to believe the baggage that I am still carrying from it.
It was good when I was living with my friends, but then I kinda sank when I moved out on my own. I bought a foreclosure, and I can't believe the work that I have to do here. I'm trying to turn things around for myself right now, but I really went into a slump for about 3 months.