Well, I've got about four months sober and two years single and will be meeting a women I met on-line (quit the laughing, you all are on-line sobering) we are going to an art museum and lunch and are coming and leaving in seperate cars. she lives about a 2 hour drive. Taking it nice and easy and slow. She is a non-drinker, don't know if its recovery or smarts. Don't know if its a good or bad thing, I think its just a thing, and by cracky, I'm doing it. (Quit laughing)