Thank you all for your words of encouragement. I gave him two choices tonight: he could go back into rehab (inpatient) or he could just go. He chose rehab. Of course he's really pissed at me and stormed out of the house cussing me the entire way. I have ruined his life (again). I feel sick to my stomach but know this is the right thing to do. I am so glad you are all here!!!