familydestroyed: I havent posted in awhile but your story has touched me. I know the pain and loneliness you feel. It is absolutley consuming. I know what it is like to think of nothing but the caios of things you can not control. To dwell on someone else's mistakes. To be consumed by the addiction. Unfortunatley, you can not help him. Honestly, the worse it gets for him the better as from the bottom there is only one direction to go...up. Lift your head, dust yourself off. Your family hasnt not been destroyed. Just merely changed. You have your children, you have your life and you have God. It would be such an injustice to allow addiction to take your soul too. Allow him to make his own way and you do the same. You are a mother, daughter, sister, wife, friend. Bathe in the glory of all the blessings you do have. And live. Show your children the stregenth you thought you lost.