Him being a jerk has nothing to do with you. Good, honest, kind and loving people just don't treat other people like that, no matter how they feel about them. This is a hard one for me to get. Some how I think if the "A's" in my life only loved me more they would treat me differently, but I have to constantly remind myself it really has nothing to do with me. It has everything to do with who they are.
((((hug)))