he is also very vindictive. he states he will not support our daughter because she is 18. which i know he will have to by law. he states he will not pay the mortgage. the note is in his name only the deed in both our names. I am prepared to loose my house if my peace of mind is at stake. his credit will be destroyed not my credit. has anyone ever had any experience with a court ordered rehab? the police department stated I can go to the county and get a restraining order and present their report of my findings (blue baggies and cut up straws) and a judge will order him to go to rehab.