@ fedup3
I still go to therapy. My son goes to therapy as well. My daughter is away at school and chooses to not particpate in therapy. My husband will not go back to therapy since the therapist didn't agree with his behavior. I do not attend any Al-Anon. I inquired about it but in my area it says "closed meetings". Do you know what that means? I am worried I will cave in and go back to how things were. It is hard to stand firm. He is just so manipulative. Makes me feel sorry for him because he is staying in a motel not at his parents house. Practically going from motel to motel with clothes in his car. It is sad.