Need some advice. Husband very manipulative
I have been married for 20years. My husband went to therapy with me for the first time Thursday. The therapist called him out on his addiction. He is in denial. He refuses to get help. I was asked if I wanted to continue in this relationship. I verbalized not while he was an addict. I will support him and stand behind him if he gets help. He stormed out of therapy and walked home. He then packed his clothes and left. He keeps texting me blaming me, I don't love him, I am not attracted to him, I have a boyfriend, I want this over, this isn't his decision or choice, blah blah blah. Constant deflection. He is very manipulative. I started cleaning out our shed. I found at least 75 little blue bags, empty prescription bottles with labels ripped off and cut up straws. I have two children...son 13 and daughter 18. I am just so deflated and numb. Any advice please?!!! I keep posting and no one seems to respond to me.