When you said you would rather that your daughter not live in the same town that you do, that made me shake my head in understanding. I'm moving out of the town that my son lives in (and was born/raised in). About 6 months ago I heard that he started renting a house only 1 mile from me. So I now avoid driving down that street because I do not want to know where he lives or what kind of car he drives Why? Because I know myself, and if i knew where he lived it would be too tempting to drive by there and keep the drama going in my head. No thanks!! I also would be very much drawn into things if i saw his car parked in the driveways where I know people live who are all screwed up due to drug use.
God bless this site. Where else could I go and read about people going through this the same as me.