Originally Posted by
Tuffgirl 
10 months sober is still pretty early, folks. I read post after post about people wanting their spouse to stop drinking. And what I am learning is it is way more than that. This explains why some posters here say "RUN" when you get that chance.
You're exactly right. It is way more than that.
For me, I had to address all three areas in recovery...physical, emotional, and spiritual. Otherwise I was little more than a dry drunk, which I have had periods of being, and it's downright miserable.