I've read your other posts....Welcome...
Please don't be useing your sleep aid with alcohol. That is very dangerous and can be fatal.
I think passing out with a toxic liquid ..alcohol..is also risky.
Please check with your doctor and ask about both your alcoholism and anxiety. Counseling might also be useful.
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I hope you and your drinking husband are not driving around anywhere. ..at least that would limit your chances of harming others.