Hi, thanks again for the responses. ACT10Npack, my sponsor is the same, she has been sober 12 years but goes to a meeting every afternoon and most evenings, it is her whole life, her whole social life is structured around it and it is so not for me. It is like she has just swapped one obsession for another and hasn't actually moved on with life, maybe I am being a bit harsh on her but I would like to think there is a life at the end of the tunnel and not just back to back meetings for the rest of my life!