My thoughts are that 2 months is a drop in the ocean. Protect your serenity and let him work on his.
You don't really owe him anything. Continue with your own recovery and it will sort itself out, one way or another.
When I had those urges in the very beginning the contact had nothing at all to do with my xah. It was all about me. What is going on with you? Is there some emotion or feeling you need to deal with and your first urge is to go focus on someone else, fix them, help them, ignore yourself? That was usually what it was for me but everyone is different. I 1000 percent knew I didn't want to get back together so it was always something else I needed to work out and dragging him into it would have been not only ignoring/denying my own issue but would not have been fair to him at all.