thank you! If you know my area you know there are many that struggle, so much that all the shelters are booked. I am trying to keep my chin up and stay strong mainly for my son, if I didn't have him I would run to my mom and take her with me to save her, not that that would be the right the thing to do, but what my heart wants to do. I will check into that reading, reading on here helps me to feel I am not alone in this struggle and not the only one that gets mixed feedback from family. Keeps me focused...........