Yes, she did. Thank you so much for this. She has a way of pulling my guilt strings and I know I need to come here in order to be able to be strong. They all tell me I'm the sick one for not forgetting the past etc. I don't want to press charges, don't want to send angry letters, etc. but I do want to protect myself from ongoing abuse and she tells me that is sick and unhealthy.
She is a Lutheran pastor, too. You'd think she would know better because they have ongoing counseling and learn how to counsel, themselves, but nope, this is what I get from her.