Only you can decide if you have a problem. I would encourage you to factor in what is known about alcohol addiction into your thinking and decision making. If the above post was about narcotics you might see your problem differently, and not romanticise how the drug is flavoured and packaged.
Alcohol is an addictive substance and the progressive loss of control is one of the central aspects of the developing addiction.
Like many others here I have been through a struggle to maintain the "good" parts of alcohol and not get any of the bad. I have now given up trying that because after many years of my best efforts I have been beaten and I am finally proud to say I surrender.
It can be a difficult road. I wish you peace.