Originally Posted by
searchbug 
guess what I am trying to zoom in...
He wants to blame me for the issues, WHEN I THINK it is clear he was a jerk.
And..??
that is pretty much standard operating procedure?
In the case of my ex it certainly was. Still is. He continues to text my family members telling them what terrible things I did. It seems to be the typical MO. You are NOT to blame any more than I was/am.