OMG now that I left XABF and another toxic XBF I have done similar things !
Learned to put makeup, adding more flattering things to the wardrobe, started some meditation, concerts, spa, gym visits etc.... I laugh more often nowadays... and I love smoothies and I dream about getting my own juicer. No cooking is great... I have lost weight and no longer look like a depressed zombie when pictures are taken. I also got a new haircut and am starting to paint my nails !! hhaha we are doing very similar things. YAY~!!
Keep up the good work!!