Thanks GettingBy!
We came to a resolution amongst us (him, me, his lawyer, my lawyer), though stbxah was not happy at all about it.
This is the schedule we got:
2hrs , two days during weekday and 4 hrs during weekend - I drop the kids off at his place. He should not drink 4 hrs before and during the visits. He should not drive with them.
I think stbxah was pretty upset and angry. I am feeling sad, upset, emotional, etc..
Thanks for all the thoughts and prayers..