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Old 08-27-2011, 07:33 PM
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Willybluedog
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Please take care of you and your baby, if you could take your sister out of that environment that would be wonderful too, maybe you could share childrearing in a safe and healthy home.

My mom is an alcoholic (she has been for going on 40 years) it will kill her, she has been hospitalized twice in the last year with heart issues directly related to her alcohol consumption, my father will not leave because whe he is there she only drinks four bottles of wine a day instead of 6 or 8.

Nothing you can do will change anything, all you will do is stress yourself out, there is a buddhist saying "it is what it is" meaning you can no more change your moms drinking than you could change the tides or the weather.

Please take care of yourself and the blessing that has been sent to you, nothing else matters.
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