I'm confused. MOST people are like that. If you're recovering from alcoholism or substance abuse, there are programs for young people, and not just AA.
When I was in college, those interested in their education and "not partying" were involved in their studying and sports or hobbies with a well rounded and grounded life.
Not sure who or what you want.
Non addicted people don't need to try to stay sober. My college, a small one, even had AA meetings back in the '80s. Young people working on sobriety do exist.
Be well!