I find reading my old posts helped when I began to think a drink was an option again.
The fact is aDaisy those margaritas - so harmless and benign for everyone else - would start everything back up for drinkers like us.
You've worked hard for 80plus days - don't let the dialogue in her head confuse you.
Do you really have to sit by the pool?
what wrong with going for a walk...or reading...or even organising some other family activity for everyone that's not sitting by the pool, drinking?
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