I can't speak for anyone else, and I am not a doctor; however, I too struggled with drinking for several years before being diagnozed with bi-polar disorder. I tried several medications before being given the right one for me and once I did, the drinking did stop. I also had the support of my husband who assured me the marriage would be over if I continued to drink so I had that incentive which I would not have had otherwise. Even after being treated I still wanted to drink because it had become such a regular part of my life and had to address what was triggering my cravings. Additionally, I saw a doctor and psychiatrist who regulated my medication as I was detoxing. I would definately speak with your doctor about how to go about quitting as it can be dangerous. Best of luck to you both.