Thanks everyone...
Chicoy - her son is 6. She and her exhusband have 50/50. Her drinking is always bad the day she drops him off.
Rolltide... I am no longer living in the States and the closest Al-Anon meeting is several hours away. Wondering if there is one I can do virtually? Will look into it.
Going to try to make this a good day. She woke up this side of the dirt this morning, so there is still hope, but that is up to her.