I'm just at the end of my emotional rope. I have been making myself sick with worry for over a year, with the worst being the last 5 months. I live almost 3000 miles away and can't BE there for her, but even when I have been RIGHT THERE it hasn't made a difference. One of her friends and I talked her into going to detox 2 weekends ago. I also told her that if she didn't go I would force her to go. She was drunk less than 24 hours after she got out. I was really hoping that if she got really sober she would see the mess she was in. Lesson learned for me, I will never force her to get help again. Until she wants it, it is just an excercise in futility. I had really let this go last week. First week of peace I had had in months. Now this. Praying that God will let me turn it over to Him and grant me peace.