Squishy - there are two bad reasons to not have kids - I don't have enough money, and I'm not ready. There are two bad reasons to stay married - I don't have enough money, and I'm not ready. But, at the same time, if you have something to hold on to, hold on to it. My friend that got divorced thought she stayed married for her kids, and all it did was turn her oldest into an alcoholic....so sometmes what may seem like good reasons to stay married are only more hurtful. If it's time to leap....leap. If it's not..then things have to change to make it work. I love ya sweetie.....get some rest okay? And hug and kiss those kids....they need their mama.
I'm calling it a day.....I love you all like family.