JT
That's good advice - cleaning up today's mess and then going after the stuff that's not going anywhere anytime soon... It's good to hear that you lock up a little less... it really does almost feel like free-falling (emotionally) when I start to think about dealing with my "issues"
It's encouraging to see so many folk's who've "been there/done that" and not only survived the experience but came out sooo much better off for it!