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Old 08-17-2011, 07:46 PM
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Dee74
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yeah, I do understand about parents and family getting all up in your face - but come on man, you know that's not the answer...

Pretending like it's nothing and saying you feel good about it isn't doing you any favours either - that just opens the door to doing this again...and with you living at home and being unemployed chances are days like this will happen again....

and when you get caught doing drinking...and you will - that will simply reinforce your parents attitudes - and make things even worse for you.

Act10n....I've had to accept I will never change my parents - but I can change myself.

I can change how I react and I can change the way I let them push my buttons.

Whether you want to admit it or not, you let your addiction win today act10n...pls be very careful with what you do next.

I know you don't like the idea of face to face support - but I'd really recommend you look into doing something more than what you've been doing, man.

It's in your best interests, mate.

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