wishing to do well to inflict pain/grief/revenge on those that abused/hurt us
has anyone else identified such a though.
im noticing that this desire is present in me. i feel grief and hurt and so wish to seek revenge on people that hurt me by going out and getting a super job.
logically im not sure how sound this plan is since a it puts the pressure on myself to get a super job to 'show them' [therefore lesser jobs will always be not good enough] and b is revenge a good motivating factor really in terms of deciding on a career path