This is a very good thread for me right now. Recently (4 weeks today), My RAH and I separated. He had the opportunity to take 75% of "our""my" belongings while i worked before he left and my daughter's laptop containing her pics which can't be replaced. He recently offered to return the laptop and we just wanted a jumpdrive with the files on it mailed to our home and he can keep the laptop. He has made such a "Issue" of mailing the jumpdrive this past week saying that it cost too much to mail it!!! This sends me in an angry spiral because mailing a jumpdrive is less costly then the years of alcoholism and a couple years of erratic recovery that my children and i have went thru......