Saphira, I have been here for years and I continue to be saddened by the nonsense threads that continue to appear. However, I always find inspiring words and people that I admire.
Please remember that you are encouraged to put any member who annoys/frightens you on Ignore and you will not get PMs from him or be able to see his posts. There is no need to read posts/threads that upset you and no need to be intimated by another member, ever.