Originally Posted by
Freedom1990 
The fact is he does spend that money on alcohol. Wishing otherwise won't make it so.
What do you want your future to look like?
You can't change him, but there is much you can do to change your own life.
Freedom .. at this stage of the game, I would like my life to be without the day in/day out worry that I have so constantly now.
How do people decide if they will
really be better off without their alcoholic spouse?