You know .. I did go to a couple of alanon meetings several years back. I tried different meetings in different locals. I was pretty disappointed with all three of them. And then, not too long ago .. while talking to a group of people (not relaying my story to them at all) this group of people began revealing names of individuals that were at their alanon meetings.
It was about that time that I decided I would never go back to another alanon meeting. I don't need/want anyone in general public to know about this side of my life ..