Originally Posted by
yorkie173 
Dumb question. If alcoholism isn't to blame, should I be in Al Anon?
Yorkie to answer your question, yes you should be in Al Anon because alcoholism is to blame for you putting up with living in a situation like you're in and what I think they were saying is you can't blame a person's personality all on the disease. There are jerks who have diabetes or cancer just like there are jerks who are alcoholics it's their real character.