Chino, that helps. Thank you. My son asked what I was going to do about the GF, and I said she would have to speak with me herself. That this is between me and her. I can't pick who he sees, but I don't have to accommodate her in my home just because she's his GF. I have my OWN issues with her and what she's done. She broke MY house rules and crossed MY boundaries. She was aware of drugs around MY children. She attended family parties, swam in my pool, ate my food and borrowed my daughter's clothes. She isn't part of my son, she's an individual person who has to deal with the consequences of her behaviors. She doesn't get a free pass. She's not a package deal with my son.