My husband and I are in the strong routine of at least a bottle of wine nightly each while watching movies, etc. We can be out at something and need to stop for a bottle at 10pm. He's quit with me - today is only day 2. I am concerned because he wants to "just drink on weekends" He has a guys night to a football game on Friday and I know already there will be drinking then. I know he supports this but I know once he has Friday he'll want Saturday night with wine and movies again. He doesn't think I'll be able to cut 100% and when he realizes I'm not joining him I hope it goes smoothly. I've communicated it and his response is "ya... ok".
Stick to it - You don't want it, you know you're better off without it. Give him time to absorb it too, it's a big lifestyle change, might just take him a bit to get used to.
Amy - Sorry.... you had been doing so well when he dragged you down. Super happy you are back on the right path.